On OKCupid; We’m male. I do not deliver numerous communications, perhaps 3-5 each week & i am wanting to be selective & take the time to re-read a profile and write an “attractive” message. I do not get responses that are many i realize that some females have plenty of unsolicited msgs. So that they might be exceedingly selective.
Therefore, some body awesome reacted and I also delivered a note straight back later on the exact same time. Just examined: yikes, just a little over one hour. Now this has been two times & compliment of OKC’s “last visited” snoop-a-matic, i understand she is been on.
So a) must I have actually waited longer? B) will she reply? (rhetorical: i understand i am being impatient) c) the length of time must I wait the next occasion?
I suppose we really could utilize the right time for you to write a draft reaction & allow it sit for dispassionate review.
Present & related: simply closing interaction, callous as it can appear, is really the norm and perhaps in fact is a simpler let down than “on 2nd thought perhaps perhaps not interested” message. The 3 rule still sort of exists, for some people, anyway day.
We suppose I could make use of the time and energy to write a draft response
Oh do not do that — it’s going to be obvious, and it surely will oftimes be too much time. Continue reading